Sunday, November 30, 2008

We are now in Guangzhou

Well, we are now in southern China in a city called Guangzhou (formerly Canton). The weather is much warmer here than in Jinan. It is more like Texas weather here. We are staying in a beautiful hotel complete with a fish pond with the biggest "goldfish" you will ever see that winds through the bottom floor and a playroom for the babies. The streets outside are lines with little stalls where they sell all kinds of souveniers from traditional Chinese clothing for the children to jade bracelets. Emma and Olivia are having a great time shopping there. So far, Olivia has bought 3 different purses and is very happy about that as she always has a purse with her! Emma is on the look out for anything with jade as she just realized that her Chinese name means "little jade." Celia LOVES shoes and wants to try on every pair that we stroll by. Anyone who gets in the elevator with us is subjected to her demands to "look at her new pink shoes." All of the Chinese people here think that she is so clever because she speaks so much Chinese at such an early age. Many people have said, "She know everything!" She also understands pretty much everything we tell her and she has started trying to repeat what we say.

We went to the Chen Family Academy today. It is a beautiful residence of many rooms around a large courtyard. Later, we took the kids to the playroom at the White Swan Hotel.

Celia is a sweetie! She is happy all of the time and now only cries when she is hungry. She eats like a pig, sleeps all night long, and LOVES to laugh and be silly. She is a born entertainer. Did I mention that on top of being sweet and clever that she is beautiful! Many Chinese people have stopped us to ask which province she is from as her eyes are so big and round and beautiful. She has the longest eyelashes I have ever seen. She is only the 58th baby to be adopted from her province of Shandong in northern China this calendar year.

We have completed all of the paperwork for the Chinese portion of the adoption. The adoption is official and finalized. We are here in Guangzhou because that is where the American embassy is located. Celia will need a visa from the US government to immigrate to the US where she will become a citizen upon arrival. In the morning we will get her visa picture made as well as take her for a medical exam as part of the required paperwork to enter the US. We are also going to take the kids to a park with slides and swings. The big girls are excited about that. They have been good sports about being cooped up in hotel rooms, going to appointments, and just generally being on their best behavior for a week and a half now. They are ready to blow off some steam! Emma and Olivia really love Celia. They look out for her. So sweet to see the 3 of them together. Celia already worships Em and Liv but has also mastered the art of bossing them around-even in Chinese! They, of course, pretty much do anything she tells them to do!

Here are a few pictures from our first day in Guangzhou.

At the White Swan Hotel...


At Starbucks...

In the playroom at the White Swan Hotel...


At the Chen Family Academy...


Friday, November 28, 2008

I am thankful for...

Emma Rose Xiaoling, Olivia Xinjuan, and Celia Grace Qianxue...






Happy Thanksgiving from China

This morning we took a trip to Da Ming Lake Park. It is a beautiful park a couple of hundred years old. It was very cold there today, but we had a nice stroll none the less. Afterward, we went to pick up Celia's Chinese passport. The driver then let us out at the McDonalds near our hotel where we had lunch. We then shopped in an underground street mall. My mom, Vicki, bought a cute pair of shoes and I got a handbag. Emma and Olivia bought headbands. Celia tried to buy shoes at every stall we passed. She loves shoes. She even told a man in the elevator this evening to look at her new hot pink patent leather high tops.

After the shopping trip we returned to the room for a little rest. I managed to order room service for dinner because Celia was very tired. After dinner, we went to the basement and the girls enjoyed a game of bowling. Everyone is passed out and I am now left to pack as we leave Shandong province in the morning. All of the paperwork on the Chinese side of the adoption is complete. Celia's adoption is official and final. She is now officially Celia Grace Qianxue Focarile. We now head to a city in southern China named Guangzhou to complete paperwork at the US embassy to obtain a visa for Celia to travel to the US on her Chinese passport. Once we go through immigration in Dallas upon our return, she will automatically become a US citizen and I can then apply for a US passport.

So, yes, we have much to be thankful for this Thanksgiving. I am most thankful that I get to be the mother to 3 of the most beautiful, clever, and sweet girls in the entire world.

Celia Grace wakes up happy this morning...

Our trip to Da Ming Lake Park...




Emma and Olivia feed the birds...


While Celia watches...

Emma and Olivia ride the Merry-go-round...


While Celia sleeps...

Lunch at McDonalds and Celia's first ice cream cone...


Trip to the bowling alley...

Good night from Jinan...

Thursday, November 27, 2008

Three Sweet Peas in a Pod...

Being silly...


With our guide, Grace...

First bowl of spaghetti...


Wearing Emma's shoes...

Silly Girls...


Our visit to Qingdao

We just returned from a 2 day excursion to Qingdao. Qingdao is a very beautiful city. Very picturesque. While we were there I had to go to a Chinese police station to file for Celia's passport. I caused quite a scene as I was the only non-Chinese person in the station (with a crying baby at that). The guide and the director told me to wait on a bench with Celia as they went and did all of the paperwork. Several Chinese people came up to me and tried to hold a conversation to no avail. Finally, after going out to purchase a gift for the policeman, we successfully completed our paperwork.

We also were able to visit the orphanage where Celia lived. Everyone seemed to know her by name including the security gate man and the groundskeepers. The orphanage was on the top of a beautiful hill that overlooked the entire city and the ocean. Quite a prime piece of real estate. They took me to the room of cribs were Celia slept. It was lined with windows that allowed lots of sunlight in. There were many caretakers who were working with the babies. As we played with the babies, it was apparent that they were all happy and well loved in this particular orphanage. It was very clean and did not even have an institutional smell that you might find in nursing homes and such. I must admit that I shed a few tears as I was overwhelmed with the love the staff had for my daughter. The vice director then took me to place where Celia was found. She was found under a street overpass at a crowded intersection. It was in a busy area of town where the line between well to do and poverty were very clear. I was able to get out and take some photos.

The director also told us how the babies were named. It seems there is a list of only about a hundred or so last names in China. Every year, the orphanage selects a different last name for babies admitted that year. In Celia's case, that was Chen. In China, the 2nd character of their name (which would be like our first name) is used to identify a generation, and in a family all children of a certain generation are given the same name. So all of the babies in the orphanage had the "first name" Qian (pronounced chien). In China it means heavens (same meaning as Celia). The third character, which would be like our middle name, is individual to the child. Celia's name is Xue (shoe-ay) meaning snow which is symbolic of purity. So all of the children brought to the orphanage the same year as Celia were named Chen Qian ______. Here there is much more meaning and symbolism when naming a child than in America. When referring to people here, you call then by both the 2nd and 3rd character, often written together: QIANXUE. If you are familiar and call a person by their nickname, you would simply use the 3rd character: XUE. The orphanage staff called Celia a derivative of Xue that means snowy.

Next we headed to the aquarium. We arrived just in time to see one of the mermaid shows. It only had 2 mermaids in it, but Olivia was plastered against the glass of the ceiling to floor tank taking in every move. They swam right up to her. She did not have much to say, but it was clear that she was enjoying the show. We were also able to see several animals. As some of you know, Emma Rose loves to read about animals, particularly ocean animals. She was able to get up very close to a beluga whale. It even tried to spit water on her. She had a great time also. We had lunch at KFC.

We were also able to take the girls out to the ocean's edge to briefly look for shells. A cold front was coming through, so we were not able to stay out for long. We did make it to a Starbucks and then took the girls for HaagenDaz ice cream. Before we left Qingdao, we stopped by the Olympic Sailing Venue. We did not stay long as the temperatures were dropping and giant snowflakes began to fall almost as if Qingdao was bidding a farewell to Xue, the Princess of Snow.

We definitely are making progress with Celia. She cried all of the way to Qingdao (over 3 hours). However, the next day, we did see lots of smiles, she finally played with the girls and was quite silly. Seems like she enjoys making people laugh. Today she only cried for about 1 hour (nonstop) this morning and about 3 hours nonstop this evening before finally going to sleep. She got in the bathtub with Em and Liv this evening and had a ball. She splashed and splashed. Here are a few pics from the last couple of days in Qingdao.

Shells on the beach...


Emma's Fishy Friends...


Kissing a beluga whale...

Olivia and the mermaids...


Lunch time...

The beautiful city of Qingdao...



Celia's finding location...

Olivia standing by mural on wall in the orphanage. Celia is the baby in the pink heart.

Celia's room at the orphanage which overlooked the city and the ocean...

With orphanage staff...


With the director of the orphanage...